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Be ready to accept rejections

When we make a wish to someone, ask someone for something or make a proposal, the reply would be either YES or NO. Whatever the reply is, we should be able to accept it. 

A proposal we make may not be acceptable for the other person. We cannot be adamant that they should accept it. It is completely their right and their choice. It depends on them to choose. And their decision is final here.

Getting emotional when they say NO is of no use and making them accept it through any other way doesn't really make any sense. To hurt or abuse someone mentally or physically just for rejecting a proposal is strictly a punishable offense. 

In a democratic country, a person can choose whatever they want and they have the right share their opinion. According to the laws of our country, each person can choose their life themselves.

Nowadays, we come across many shocking incidents like murders and acid attacks for the rejections. 


Thoughts like, 'What I cannot gain should never be gained by anyone', 'He/She should not live happily leaving me to grieve' or 'I'll attain what I wished for at any cost' etc., are foolishness. Can you call the tendency to hurt/kill someone you 'loved' for their rejection as 'love'?


To love someone is fine. But to hurt them for saying NO could only be called as a serious mental sickness. Its pure selfishness. No one could make a person fall in love by forcing. Once a NO will always be a NO!

A selfish person who used to live a happy life by gaining all their wishes and needs are the ones who are so cruel to do whatever they can to make a person accept their proposal. Unable to face any failures or rejections, they think that they should make them accept at any cost, else kill/harass them.

We should get used to the phrases like, 'No' and 'I cannot'. We should accept the fact that it is their personal choice and remember before making a proposal that the reply could even be a NO, so that we should accept it wholeheartedly. Only then we can move on in this world.


We cannot attain everything we wish for and there should be certain failures too. That is life. We all should be mature enough to understand and accept this fact.

To give up is love, not a seizure.

Also we should be able to say NO to anything which we cannot accept, feel irritated, hate or dislike. We must be able to take clear decisions over all kinds of relations and commitments. Feel free to say NO ; anyone, any time.

You don't have to think every rejection is the end or everything is over. Rejections could be a milestone for new beginnings. We must have the maturity to understand it and act accordingly.

Wishing you all to have a good day.

Thanking You :)


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