Skip to main content

Why should we get married?

Why and when should a person get married?

When you get a job?

When you complete your studies?

After having your own house?

To have kids? 

To enjoy sexual life? 

To make the man a better person?

When a girl has some love affairs?

When the society start asking about it?

When your parents need a you to have a  companion?

To make them happy? 

To let them be peaceful in their old age? 

To complete your duty?

To not to be alone? 

When you need someone to cook/ work for you? 

When you attain the 'age bar' set by the society?

When marriage brokers starts approacing you?

When your horroscope/ the astrologer advice you?

When the matrimony sites provoke you/ your parents?

When you have a younger sister who is already attaining the age to get married?

When you don't have financial stability?

To protect the pride of your family?

Most of the weddings take place because of the above reasons. Actually, why and when should we get married? Is it really a necessity?

You have to think about marriage only when you think you need a companion/ a partner in your life ahead. No need to get married if you don't like the other person, thinking that you are getting aged. There is no such 'age bars' for marriage. Also you should not think that you may like the person in future and get married for now as an experiment either. Get married only when you find the right and suitable person. And the most important thing is, the other person should also like you and get satisfied about you. Never think you can adjust after getting married. Understanding is very much important in a marriage, not the adjustment.


It should be with your complete happiness, interest and satisfaction without any external concerns and compulsions. It should depend only about two individuals. Dialogues like 'it is the union of two families' could only be seen in advertisements. It is your life to live and your choice to decide. Let it be the opinion whether you should get married or not. Marriage is never a necessity. You can live happily without getting married too. Don't think that your life isn't complete without a marriage. Happiness and satisfaction in your life is all important and it is what which says whether you lived a complete life.

If you think that you have to get married only because you need a companion in your old age, it is pure selfishness. Doing this for your need after years could not be justified, since our lives are unpredictable. To accommodate a person according to your plans and convenience could never be called as a proper relationship.


Do not live forgetting your wishes and happiness. It is your life and the decision is solely yours. Live today and lead a happy life. Each person in your life should be with your concern and your choice. 

There could be certain wrong decisions in your life too. But you should be able and be ready to correct it. Just ask to yourself often whether you are happy or not. I repeat, every relation in YOUR LIFE should be with YOUR CONCERN and YOUR CHOICE.


Wishing you all to have a good day.

Thanking You :)





Labels:

Popular posts from this blog

When attachment hurts

The hardest part of attachment isn’t always losing someone - it’s watching them drift away because of life. Not because they’ve stopped caring, not because they’ve changed as a person, but because circumstances stepped in. Distance, busy days, different paths. Suddenly, the friend who once felt like your everyday comfort now feels like a guest in your life. And it hurts in ways words can’t carry. The calls grow fewer, the replies slower, the laughter shorter. You tell yourself, 'they still care… it’s just life'. But your heart aches anyway, because attachment makes you sensitive. Every small change feels like a loud silence. Yet, even through the ache, you can’t deny how beautiful it is when such friendships first arrive in your life. The ones you never expected - born out of a random moment, a casual conversation, or sheer coincidence - end up carving the deepest spaces in your heart. These friends make the world feel lighter, like you’ve been handed a quiet gift you didn’t ev...
Read more

But still..

It is hard, but still… we go on. It is heavy, but still… we carry it. It is uncertain, but still… we hope. It is painful, but still… we love again. Because somehow, deep down, we know - life doesn’t stop for the storms. And maybe that’s what makes it beautiful. It’s not always easy to wake up and try again when everything inside you wants to give up. But you still do - quietly, stubbornly, beautifully. You may not even realize it, but that’s courage. Not the loud, movie kind; the soft, everyday kind that says, "I’ll face today anyway.” It is confusing - when people you cared for drift away, when plans fall apart, when dreams take longer than they should. But still… you find small reasons to smile; a good song, a sunset, a message from someone who remembers. That’s life’s way of saying, “Keep going, you’re not done yet.” It is tiring to be the strong one all the time. To be the listener, the comforter, the one who understands while silently needing to be understood. But still… you ...
Read more

The absurdity of suffering

Bad times don't just "feel bad". They feel like suffocation. Like something heavy pressing on your chest that no one else can see. I don't try to make suffering prettier than it is. Pain is real, and when you're in it, advice feels hollow. And yet, something strange happens with time. Some of the deepest insights I've seen in people's lives didn't come wrapped in joy and clarity. They came from heartbreak, from disappointments, from nights that felt endless. There's something absurd about how much we learn from suffering, how pain becomes a kind of teacher no one asked for, but everyone meets eventually. The existential lens does not sugarcoat things. Life has no built-in meaning. We suffer, often without reason, and sometimes we break. But within that absurdity lies freedom; we get to choose how we respond. The suffering may not be meaningful in itself, but what we do with it can be. That's where the human spirit becomes something fierce and b...
Read more