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Toxicity inside family relationships

Doesn't we all seek happiness? For sure, yes. We all wanna live our lives peacefully. We'll try to get out of a toxic relationship once we find we are into it. What if this toxicity is inside our own home where we spend most our time? No family could be out of conflicts and compromises. But what if its all about quarrels? 

No one is perfect and each and everyone has their own disadvantages. What if it becomes a weapon to damn someone? 

Still there are many women who couldn't express their struggles and inside the shackles of 'family life'. Many such lives are still unable to break these chains due to their helplessness. 

Helpless lives of children amidst the mutual conflicts of parents too is an important concern. Many such children live a traumatic life. How sad is this!


They sometimes even think of running away from their own house due to this, but the thought about how to live further make them stay however. They then wants to get away from their house once they earn a job and be capable to lead an independent life. 


I should say this; like everyone says, not every families are same. Many parents think that atleast their children should lead a happy and peaceful life unlike them.

Dear everyone, if you think that you are in a toxic relationship, which could be of any kind, please try to get out of it somehow. It not only affects you but also your loved ones.


Remember, to live a single/lonely and happy life is far better than a toxic and traumatic life.

NB : This one is not just for women, but also for men.

Wishing you all to have a good day.

Thanking You :)


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