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Time for a change

We all go through many changes 24 hours a day. Nature itself goes through thousands of changes from dawn to dusk. Each of us accepts all these changes to move forward in our lives.


But, we should definitely think whether we actually/usually find ourselves ready to embrace the changes in the individuals and in our own personal lives.

Changes are natural in human beings as they go through many stages and various paths in life. But many of us refuse to accept or understand it.


Thoughts like 'They should treat me like this' and 'They had promised me before' are the factors that pull us back from accommodating changes. There is no point in insisting that it should always be the same.  

Be it anyone in the world ; never expect anything from them. If you cannot understand what their life make them experience, just don't waste your precious time for it. Also, try to be self-sufficient in understanding and accepting them. 


There is nothing constant in this world. The air we breathe, the water we drink, the light we see ; even the earth we are on is changing from place to place every moment. Similarly, we need to be able to accept and respect the changes in the people around us.

Learn to embrace changes. Life is guaranteed to change. Accept it and move on. Like someone said,'Don't just go through life ; grow through life!'


Wishing you all to have a good day.

Thanking You :) 
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