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Happy career !


To begin with, let me congratulate all the winners and good scorers of public/ board exams (sorry that I'm a little late).

Other than a few who've already chosen their career, many might be facing this doubt ; what to do next ? Not only the students, but also the parents. 


We have a lot of different and job - perspective courses available today. Many might have been confused about what to choose among that. Many people including parents, family and friends might have suggested different courses.

Some parents might have forced to choose the course they wish them to do. Or might have chosen a course according to their choice. Or else, they might have pre - planned to make their children a doctor, an engineer or something else since so long. As a part of that, children might have been getting forced to take that particular course.


Now this is for those parents ; 

All our children have different tastes. They have good skills, interests and likes. They are supposed to prove their skills and shine in different fields. Every student has their favorite subjects and areas of study. For some, it might be the subjects related to commerce. For others, it might be science or humanities. 

When it comes to undergraduate or post graduate studies, it might be medical or engineering field for some. For others, it might be commerce, arts or science. Similarly, there might be those who are interested in different fields which include career oriented courses, artistic courses or subjects. 

They may also have their own dreams, interests and goals to achieve in the future, as mentioned in the field of study. 


We can shine more only when we study the subject or work in the field that we like or are interested in. Since they are our favourite subjects, we'll be able to study with more interest and can understand the subjects quickly. Thus, we'll be able to achieve great success and achievements. 

On the other hand, all these would not be possible by forcing them to join for a course which is against their interest or is hard for them to learn. Leave about the excellence ; they may even lose the desire to learn. 


They will never be completely happy and satisfied when they have to study a subject that they are not interested in and then have to work in that field after studying and this is the truth ! 

We should thus certainly get rid of this stubbornness that our children should accept our choice of their career. Atleast try to understand that it is such a blunter, trying to prepare 'broiler' doctors or engineers or whatever...! Its just their CHOICE and it is the only thing that matters !

Each student is different and unique in their own way and respect their interests and talents. 

Let them choose the subjects and courses that they want, they're interested in and they can excel in.


Let us stand by them to achieve great achievements in different fields. Let us support and guide them on their way to success !

Dear students, whatever you decide to do, make sure it makes you happy ! Cheers for a happy career !

Wishing you all to have a good day.

Thanking you :)


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