"You are so good at making people uncomfortable !"

The issue mentioned here is actually a conversation between Riyas Salim (Ex-contestent of Bigg Boss Malayalam Season 4) and Meera Anil (Anchor) in the show, Comedy Stars Season 3. The video clip of their conversation is currently unavailable in youtube, since they removed it due to some unknown reasons.

Questions, jokes and enquiries are ofcourse encouraged ; only with minimum common sense. Or else, you will have to face the consequences.

Why isn't it understood that one's personal life is their own privacy and it should be respected ?!

No one ever will be ready to accept the awkwardness when they are asked about their private matters and they will or should respond with strong words of objection. And thats what Riyas did there.

If this is the media role, then it should be renamed as decline/degradation ! To the media world : its just not your 'world' ; let me mention that you can see another world of humans, if you climb down. Adding 'masalas' and asking unwanted and irrelevant questions to the guests is not how you should increase the rating of your shows. Atleast know that its so cheap !

It was good that Riyas had given such a response in this show ; atleast the fake masks will tear apart !

Too obvious answers will burn out the stinging question.

To everyone who intrudes into the personal life or private space of others...let me say this again ; YOU ARE SO GOOD AT MAKING PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE !!

Wishing you all to have a good day.

Thanking you :)

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