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Stalking is not love !

I've heard this from many, that they are/were following someone since a long time ; and what surprises me the most is that, they say it with such pride ! And the other thing in this is, if we ask them why are they doing so, their answer will be like, they 'love' that particular person ! I wonder...aren't  they ashamed of themselves ?!


'Love at first sight', following someone anywhere and everywhere they go, stick behind them wherever they travel, trying to seek their attention through such actions, make them fall in 'love' seeing their 'hard work'...and what not ! Such stupid cliches still exist in our society !

Actually, it's no wonder that it happens here, as long as 'friends' who advice them to proceed with the stalking until they accept the proposal, and even helps them, exists around ! After all, we live in the same society where they glorify stalking as 'true love' ! 

 Stalking is being glorified in movies since ages and this indeed influence the youngsters into toxic behaviours

I just can't understand this logic...
Like how can you justify this act of annoying a person by following them nevertheless the place, even after a rejection or warning from their side ?! And they call this 'true love' !!
 

Oh yeah, they may ask if they need any permission to 'love' someone...

Well, disturbing someone's peace and being the uninvited guests to their private space is indeed a toxic behaviour !


We usually come across the glorifications of such 'true love' toxicities on social media, which also includes 'pain of one-sided lovers' with oh so stupid bgms with it !!

Stalking is a very toxic behaviour of being mistaken for love. It is not your 'love', but the level of toxicity and the disorder of your mind being indicated with such annoying activities. 


Pursuing a person constantly without their interest or consent is not love. Rather, understand that the what other person feels is a kind of discomfort, disturbance and irritation. 

Also, try not to invade into a person's private space without their permission, be it in the name of love or whatever.

Unrespected stalkers, before you stalk anyone next time, just don't forget that what you do is a punishable offence, according to IPC section 354 ! Try to check up your mental stability by consulting a psychiatrist, as soon as possible.



Wishing you all to have a good day.

Thanking you :)




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