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What I wanna say to my younger self


If you have the ability to love at least one person in your life, love yourself. Others will find many faults in us. It might not be possible for those around us to accept our nature and body as such. But remember that you are perfect as you are and you don't have to change anything for anyone else. Remember that only you remains till the end to hold you closer. 


Dreams are not too big or too small. A day comes when the dreams that others think are impossible, comes to reality. Sometimes when we look around now, you might not have anything to achieve it. But if you are so passionate about that dream, it will certainly come true.


Each person's success in life has a different face. For some, the definition of success may be to be known by everyone. But for us , it might be a peaceful life or a good paying job. So never judge yourself by someone else's measure of success. Discover a definition of success for yourself. 


There is no need to insist that we should be the best and be the first in everything. Life is not a marathon. It is normal to fail and start from nothing. There is no need to be the best ; be it a mother, a daughter, or an employee or whatever. Do things as best as we can, try, fail and sometimes win. There is nothing we could do, other than being kind to others. 


While learning to say NO, also learn to receive NOs. Because, others too have the same freedom to reject you just like you have. It's normal to feel bad about rejections. But remember that not everyone can get along with everyone. Everyone has their own choices in life just like us. 


No need to stay anywhere losing yourself. Do not try to prove your love by being so forgiving and tolerant. When you feel like you can't, when you feel like you don't get the respect and consideration you deserve, come out of it no matter how dear it is to you. And never beg for love. 


There is a big difference between film and life. Life is never always colorful. There are times when we lose ourselves. But don't blame yourself by thinking that it's all our fault. Realize that no one can be happy all the time. 


There is nothing wrong with asking someone about things you don't know. Not anyone is born knowing everything. Open up your mind to your dear ones once in a while. Express your love if you have it. Because there is no certainty as to who will be left among us tomorrow. There is no point in worrying about unrequited love.


Family is not necessarily a place of love and happiness for everyone. But if your family is such a place, hold them together. Sometimes they are the only ones who can forgive you and hold you together in the end. 


Talk to others while understanding your own privileges. Sometimes like us, not everyone has got everything in their life.

And above all, be true to your own conscience.

Wishing you all to have a great day.

Thanking you :)



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