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Past is passed !

Past ; gone by in time and no longer existing. And that's the literal meaning. 


Our past might sometimes be the most cherishing memories. Like those innocent childhood days...initial school days...those pure friendships...so and more.

Yet, pasts are not oblivious to be the best. Some past thoughts might not be relieving, but the most traumatic. The very thought of certain past incidents might panic you like hell ! If you have experienced this, well you're not alone my friend...!


I've seen many who are still 'living' in their past. The past, that once broke them up still does it and are unable to get out of it. I clearly can understand their situation. And I know that it's easy to advice, but not that easy to work it out.

But I'm sure, you can give it a try if you're one of them. 


Past might hurt ; but remember it has 'passed'. And the scars it made has the strange power to feel that it is real. Well no, it isn't ! 

First of all, if you wanna get it out of yourself, just cry out. Perhaps, louder ! The more you hide your fear inside, the more you'll suffocate. Just let it all out. If you wanna cry, do it without any hesitation !


Now, say good bye to all your fears and tell them strictly that they're done and could never haunt you ever. Like literally ! And then, say hi to your life and try to reconnect to it.


Try to enjoy every little happiness around you and smile more...laugh more...! Share your problem with someone if you really trust them And if necessary, try consulting a psychologist. 

I'm sure, it might not be so easy. But as I said, you certainly can give yourself a chance. It is in our hand to decide whether to run from it or learn from it.


Always remember that past is a place of learning, not living. Let go of it, but keep the lessons it taught you.

Like Dr. Jehangir Khan said, (reference from the movie 'Dear Zindagi' by Gauri Shinde) "Don't let your past blackmail the present, to ruin a beautiful future".


Wishing you all to have a good day. 

Thank you :)



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